Why is it favorable for a husband to massage his wife's feet?

2024 Author: Seth Attwood | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 15:55

HUSBAND IS FAVORABLE TO DO FOOT MASSAGE TO WIFE FOR MANY REASONS. But we are not talking about massage here. As a member of several women's groups, I often come across articles where it is said a lot about what a woman should do to her husband: give him a foot massage, give him a tantric massage, give him yourself, your love, acceptance, support, respect, understanding, etc. … And all the time - give, do, give!.. Does nothing bother you?

But I am annoyed by 2 things. First of all, I think charity is good if you are a millionaire. But if you are a beggar, then there can be no question of charity. You can only give what you have, and in full. When your Chalice of Love overflows, then the desire to share this Anyone arises quite naturally. But if a person does not have himself or has insufficient quantity, and, nevertheless, gives, then he always does it at the expense of his own resources, at the expense of emptying himself. It's like trying to feed the hungry by pulling pieces off your own body. So before talking about the fact that a woman must do or give something, it must be said that she herself must be filled to the brim, her Chalice of Love, Power and Wisdom must be filled. And before starting to massage her husband's feet, she herself and all her body parts, including her feet, must be massaged, as they say, I don’t want to.

Secondly, I believe that a woman is an RECEIVING structure, and a man is a GIVING structure. So why on earth should she give anything? And anyway, why on earth does she even have to? Moreover, what I am talking about is not just information or a point of view, it is Mathematics and Natural Science. Everything can be viewed from the point of view of Mathematics - singularity, duality, trinity, etc. So, from the standpoint of unity and integrity, a woman is an RECEIVING structure. From the point of view of duality, it is an RECEIVING, and then a GIVING structure. But the TAKING ACTION IS THE FIRST. Nature has arranged so that in order to give a man something, she must take something from him. And I think that IT IS NOW TO SPEAK ABOUT IT! And we will also talk about this, but a little later.

And now here's what. I personally do not understand why neo-scholars of the Indian trend, with perseverance worthy of better use, make a man out of a woman, transforming her from a receiving structure into a giver. Rather, I understand why. If we take a close look at modern Indian culture, we will see that THERE IS THE MOST SEVERE PATRIARCH. All culture and all religion is built on the fact that a man is everything, a woman is nothing. Man is God, woman is an appendage and servant of God. Favorite images - Shiva sits in meditation (lounges, takes care of himself, his own growth), and Shakti dances around him the Dance of Life (plows in and provides him so that he can continue to do nothing), Lakshmi sits at Narayana's feet and gives him a foot massage, but not vice versa.

And if we have already mentioned the Gods, then it is worth saying that in our ancient Slavic tradition there are also Gods. Only we izkoni had a completely different model of relations between a man and a woman. In the Slavic tradition, from ancient times, there was a balance between masculine and feminine principles. This was expressed in many ways, including in the relationship between Gods. We have Svarog - God-Father, and Lada - Goddess-Mother. And no one serves anyone, they are next to each other hand in hand. I do not propose to start believing in the Slavic Gods, I propose to examine and choose a model of relations. Personally, the latter is closer and prettier to me.

Of course, there are grains of truth in the Indian version of the Vedas. However, for some reason, not all of them are represented among the masses. The version that I described is more common. And I believe that it does great harm. First, one of the traits of a woman is her naivety. I know from myself and from my girlfriends that women are very gullible and you can sell them anything. And women, as they read something or listen to someone, believe in it and begin to embody with all their immeasurable strength. And they become "Vedic" women according to the canons of the Indian Vedas. However, often after some time has passed, they find that it has become much worse. It is known that families of Vedic women also fall apart. That is, these ideas not only do not work, but they often harm families!

Secondly, when you read Vedic authors and non-Vedic psychologists, one gets the impression that a woman is the main force of the Universe, and that a woman can do anything. Of course, this is very flattering to disliked women and their weakened egos. However, let's face it - a woman can't do everything! She cannot impregnate herself, she cannot be a man, she cannot do a man's work, she cannot alone do the work that two should do, she cannot build a relationship in which two participate alone. It cannot be both feminine and masculine at the same time, be both a receiving and a giving structure. And if suddenly she can and does it, then she is no longer a woman. Her femininity has been lost. And mentally, energetically, and sometimes physically, she is reborn as a man.

Relations between people are BETWEEN people, and everyone contributes, their 50%. Relationships are a couple dance. Let's imagine that we are at a concert where a couple will dance tango. So, the stage, the curtains, the light of the stage … A man enters the stage and becomes motionless. A beautiful woman comes out, comes up to a man and starts dancing around him. And the man stands motionless. The woman makes different steps around him and tries very hard. But will a dance come out of this if the man remains motionless? I think it’s obvious to everyone that it’s not.

So it is in relationships. A woman can do anything - act according to Vedic principles, work on herself, go to trainings, work out problems, but if a man does nothing, then NOTHING will come of it. If he does not move his finger, brain, his 5th point and something else, NOTHING WILL HAPPEN. NOTHING AT ALL. So why is there so much talk about what a woman should do, and so little talk about the fact that it is also time for a MAN TO GET OUT OF THE SOFA AND START MOVING AT LEAST ANYTHING?

And now let's return to the statement that before giving a man something, a woman must take something from him. This is how Nature arranged it. And it is easy to prove and everyone can be convinced of it. The culmination and quintessence of the relationship between a man and a woman is the conception, bearing and birth of a child. Let's take a closer look at this process.

When a man and a woman make love, the man enters into the woman, and she takes him into herself. In fact, in this process, the MAN GIVES, AND THE WOMAN TAKES, accepts, absorbs a part of the man's body into herself. Then the man gives the woman a small part of himself - a sperm, one cell. And again the woman accepts it. And then, after a while, she gives the man a ready-made child with millions, if not billions of cells. And that's just simple math, although of course that's not the point. With the birth of a child, a man receives much more than a lot of correctly organized cells. He acquires a son or daughter, procreation, embodiment of himself and new opportunities, in particular, to continue his life through children. And, of course, he gains an invaluable experience of self-knowledge and self-development, knowing himself as a Husband and Father.

This process shows very well the true nature of a man and a woman, their relationship. A man has a single nature, a woman has multiple nature. This is how the Universe arranged it. Therefore, a woman has the ability to multiply everything that gets to her! But here it is very important to preserve the natural sequence of actions: a woman first needs to accept, and only then she acquires the ability to bestow. In a relationship with a man, this is the only way and nothing else.

That is why you need to invest your efforts, attention and money in a woman! This is the best investment you can make! If it was possible to translate the invested effort into a monetary equivalent, then for each ruble invested, a man receives at least 16, or even all 100 rubles, or even many times more. And all this is due to the multiple and multiplying nature of women.

So, men, invest in a woman! Do what you can for her - do a foot massage, tantric massage, give flowers, gifts and sweets, love, affection and attention! You give her a little bit, and you get a hundredfold! THIS IS EXACTLY WHY HUSBAND IS FAVORABLE TO DO FOOT MASSAGE TO WIFE !!! J