How a woman can become a man

2024 Author: Seth Attwood | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 15:55

Feminist ideas pierce more and more women's hearts every day. Any educated, self-respecting woman today believes that she is in no way inferior to a man, and in many respects surpasses him in everyday, financial and even political aspects. Each has her own and undeniable opinion on any issue, and the intellectual abilities of a man who disagrees with her is highly questioned. Women everywhere are trying to prove that they are not worse, but in general, if you look closely, even better (smarter, smarter, fairer).

Everything would be fine, only men still overlook the pitiful attempts of their girlfriends and wives to have equal rights with them, as to another full of complexes nonsense, meeting with friends in their free time in order to be their own among their own. This is how the two halves live, each in its own world, colliding in the evening at dinner to find a common problem that will separate them again.

But women are not in vain attracted to feminist ideas. Intuitively, they understand that the world without their intervention is inharmonious, unfair, hostile and imperfect. They feel that they have been pushed into a far corner, that they are not heard, they are considered insufficiently competent, wherever they manifest themselves. And they began to prove the opposite. Receive two higher educations, teach at universities, manage companies, receive parliamentary mandates, hoping that they will be heard there. But the male world is harsh. And silent. At least break into a cake, and do not wait.

This is a well-known, ancient Yin-Yang symbol, personifying the feminine and masculine principles, a harmonious and divine union of two halves that cannot be separated. And it is in him that lies the source of the feminist idea of equality, which women, not without the help of the media and other means of managing people, have distorted to the point of disgrace. How to determine which of the halves has more rights here? Which one is smarter? Which is fairer? Which one is more significant? They are equal, but each of them has its own role in the common cause. If there is no one half, the second will lose its meaning.

And this is what the modern union of a man and a woman looks like. Who is who here and which of them is right?

I'll fantasize a little.

Once upon a time, women were human. And even…

Goddesses! They patronized the ancient cities, gave them wise advice and saved them in times of danger. They were so strong that without their strength the earth did not give birth and so authoritative that they were worshiped by the emperors. They themselves hunted and helped the hunters, with the arrows of the bow they turned darkness into light, fought against the clouds, helped sailors and merchants in their affairs.

The goddesses were brave and strong, honest and just, true to their word and professional in their business. They did not throw hysterics and, seeing difficulties, did not fall into despair. It was not typical for them to hint meaningfully: "I am a woman …", while expecting help, gifts and attention to their person.

Earthly women did not lag behind either. Raspberries, female heroes, fought along with men for their native lands, mastering the art of military affairs no worse than men.

The women were comrades-in-arms, not rivals. They did a common cause together with men, selflessly and selflessly helping them, fighting side by side with them, shoulder to shoulder. They were not afraid of life's difficulties, they were alien to coquetry and pretense, falsehood and mannerism, whims and pettiness. The women were human.

But an evil wizard flew in, showed the woman a mirror and said that her task now was to seduce and demand. And he turned women into birds, depriving them of their strength and authority.

Now they gather in flocks to discuss their beads-rings, dress-hairstyles, making men smile at best with their twitter. Indeed, how can you give meaning to what the canary sings about? Or be offended by the bird for the fact that it does not stop for half a day? You put a shiny mirror in a cage for her - let her rejoice, preen herself, clean her feathers.

Modern women believe that men do not let them into their world because of competition. But a bird cannot compete with a man. Women locked themselves in their avian world, yielding to men the human world. Women refused to participate in social processes, recognizing that the main task of the now weaker sex is to decorate themselves in all available and inaccessible ways and to demand more and more material benefits for their comfortable and carefree life.

But this does not mean that men are satisfied with this situation. This does not mean that a man does not yearn, hoping to find a friend in a woman, a half who understands and respects him, and in difficult times will lend her shoulder and help solve her husband's problems, as Marya the princess did in the fairy tale about Fedot the archer … “Don't grieve,” she said to her husband, “go to bed, the morning is wiser than the evening.”

This is how Pushkin wrote to his wife less than a couple of hundred years ago:

“My friend wife, in the last post I do not really remember what I wrote to you. I remember I was a little angry - and it seems the letter is a little harsh. - I will repeat to you gently that coquetry does not lead to anything good; and although it has its own pleasures, nothing so quickly deprives a young woman of that, without which there is neither family well-being, nor tranquility in relations with the world: respect."

Pushkin's wife is still a friend, but the spell of the evil wizard is already working, and she, feeling her attractiveness, flirts with men, gradually losing respect and light, and, in fact, her husband.

No wonder they say: “To destroy a nation, you need to corrupt a woman,” imposing on her the value of her sexual attractiveness as the highest value of her feminine nature. But which of these women could consider themselves equal to a man? Which of these women would a man listen to advice?

In society, you can often find two common family models: matriarchal and patriarchal. The woman in the family is either the smartest, or should know her place. And then whoever is lucky - whoever turned out to be stronger or more cunning, jumped out to the leaders.

Both such unions can be depicted with the same distorted symbol:

In both cases, the fault lies with the woman - she did not manage to become a friend to the man, did not hold out. Or, realizing that she falls short, she became proud.

How often, after listening to a man, a woman tells him: "You know, and you are right." How often can she admit her guilt and apologize to a man? Is a woman always true to her word and completes what she started? How often does her point of view change? Once a week? Or once a day? “Well, I'm a woman,” she explains her whims and frivolity, intemperance and cowardice. So why on earth should a man see her as an equal person? Why on earth should he spend his free time with her and consider her his best friend?

“Do not take us into your company, well, you don’t need to,” the women will say, and again they will flock together. “Our bird world is no worse. And even better, kinder, more sublime. And some will refuse to marry and give birth to children altogether, explaining that an alliance with a man is only exhausting and devastating.

The circle is closed, and everyone lives their own life again. A man fights alone in a cruel world, and a canary sings in a cage by the window, waiting for the evil wizard's spell to end and she will be allowed to leave the cage.

Anastasia Avilova,