A year without pants - a year of miracles and new impressions

2024 Author: Seth Attwood | [email protected]. Last modified: 2024-02-02 00:56

A year ago, I threw away my last pants. And I dedicated today's article to this event. She's not quite ordinary. I just want to share with you my discoveries this year.

I decided to switch to skirts two years ago. During pregnancy, I tried to wear tunics and dresses. And gradually I just stopped buying myself jeans and trousers.

But after giving birth, there was a small problem - those jeans that I already had before pregnancy beat all other clothes.

It is much easier to pull on jeans and a sweater, sports boots and a jacket. And that's all. Especially with a small child. And with two small children … Especially when you are too lazy to think about your appearance.

But a miracle happened. And the jeans were torn. Then I was faced with a choice. Buy new jeans … Or follow the path I have already chosen ….

In general, instead of jeans, I bought two dresses. Then two more … And more ….

I want to share with you what this year has given me. Me, my family, children.

1. It is much easier to give up men's affairs in a skirt. Lugging heavy bags from the store in a long sundress is, to say the least, inconvenient. And besides, it's ugly. And there is no need. Most likely, someone will come to the rescue.

2. When I put on a skirt and shoes, I immediately notice how my posture and gait change. It would seem that there is not such a big change on the outside, and such a huge shift on the inside. Just different clothes, but the sensations are very, very different.
3. Children are wildly delighted with long skirts. The elder plays hide and seek with them. The little one constantly plays in the house.
4. Putting on a dress, you immediately want to put your hair in order and do makeup. It requires you to start taking care of yourself. It takes more time and energy to spend before you leave the house, but it's worth it.
5. My husband really likes me in dresses. And if before it took a long time to ask for a new sweater, now he constantly asks - maybe you should buy another dress? Or maybe you need some new beads?

6. We quarreled much less. And the quarrels began to pass easier and faster. It became easier for me to cry during a quarrel, and not yell, as before. Reconciliation is also happening much faster than before.

7. In general, I became less annoyed, angry, whining, cursing and experiencing other unpleasant feelings. As if there were fewer situations for them to live.
8. Little miracles began to happen around me. For example, I found my dad's line, and I hope to soon get to know them and visit his grave. And I was looking for them for more than 5 years.
9. My husband gives me flowers and presents much more often. Over the past year, he gave me everything that I dreamed of all these 7 years. Maybe because I learned to ask, inspire and thank?
10. It became easier for me to ask. Asking for help, asking for gifts, asking for money, asking for attention. Simple, girlish, sweet, with a smile …
11. During this year, my husband doubled his income and earnings. At the same time, he refused those projects that drew energy from him. And he began to develop those that he had wanted to develop for a long time. And this gives him even more strength and joy.
12. Accessories came to me along with the dresses. Now I understand that these little things make a woman in many ways - earrings, beads, scarves … And only with them you can constantly transform your image.
13. They began to give way to me in transport. Not because I'm pregnant or with a baby. Because I look like a woman. And what is surprising - men are giving way.
14. The skirt is warmer in winter. Because I wear high boots and a long down jacket. And it turns out much warmer than jeans, jacket and boots.
15. My hormonal background has changed. Much less hair grows on the legs, for example. Women's days pass less painfully. The condition of the skin and hair is almost perfect.
16. This time I have no problem with breastfeeding. How many lactostasis and other nonsense I went through with my eldest son, whom I did not manage to feed for a long time! And this time not a single stagnation, no problems.

17. I made friends with needlework. There used to be a belief that my hands were growing out of the wrong place. And now I weave mandalas, sew and embroider a little - and all this with the same hands, which I could not even make an applique with before.

18. It's easier for me to do women's affairs. I put on a dress - and to the stove, to the kitchen, for cleaning. This process is easier and more enjoyable.
19. It has become much easier to develop feminine qualities. It's easier to be affectionate and kind when you are wearing a light sundress. And it's almost impossible to be docile and soft in rough jeans.
20. I stopped in-job-ing. If before I did a lot in terms of work - I helped my husband here and there, did this and that for him, and I was completely exhausted - now I only do what is mine. And also what I like. Even the thought does not arise to heap a lot of work on yourself and drag it for everyone.
21. I see people admiring me on the streets. Both men and women, and even grandmothers. Especially when I go, no, I am swimming, in a long sundress and two children …

22. There are too few women in skirts and dresses on the streets. So I really stand out. Considering that I don't wear short mini skirts, but chic long skirts that rustle and drape so nicely when walking.

23. I don’t even have a thought to buy pants. In stores, I go through these departments through and through, without even noticing what is there.
24. I really got more energy and strength. Even though there are now two children. I do more, much more. At the same time, the Lunar energy accumulates in me. Completely different than before.
25. I begin to feel the fluidity of the feminine energy - its softness and smoothness. And it's much easier to trust life and go with its flow.
26. I began to relate to God in a different way. To all rituals, rules, knowledge. I wanted to go deeper, learn more about God and strengthen my Love for him. It sounds strange, but I feel much more connected with him now than a year ago. Perhaps it is not for nothing that in many religions women are prohibited from wearing trousers?
27. I made a lot of girlfriends - although this was really a problem for me before. I became easier to get closer to women, it became easier for me to communicate with them. And besides, I began to enjoy it.
28. I understood what it means to feel like a Woman. I saw the positive aspects of the Feminine nature - and most importantly - I was able to feel the difference on myself.
29. It was in this year that I started writing articles. Maintain constellations. Groups for women. I was finally able to find myself, find my balance between family and self-realization, self-development and charity. This is an incomparable sensation.
30. And I can finally say that I am really happy. There is this light inside me, there is this feeling of eternal happiness inherent in every soul. And even if the events in the outside world are not joyful, my light remains with me. Almost always.

In all women's groups, the first exercise - which I always give - is wearing skirts. I want to look out the window one day - and not see a single woman in trousers there. Here's a simple dream.

I could write as many more points, because this year has changed a lot in my life. Maybe it's just an astrological period. Or something else there. Coincidentally, it was a year ago that I buried my last pants.

And I see this simple relationship. It became easier for me to follow my nature, it is easier to be a Woman, to behave like a Woman, to follow the Feminine way.

And most of all I am glad that more and more women around me are taking risks and throwing out their pants. Switching to dresses … and getting similar results.

Long live dresses and skirts, accessories and hairstyles, Lunar energy! All feminine is for women. Everything masculine - including trousers and responsibility - let us finally give it to men.

We can change the world. Feminine. Just minding your own business. Remaining Women.

And I wish us all the same to change this world. Feminine.

Olga Valyaeva