Maternal energy of a woman

2024 Author: Seth Attwood | [email protected]. Last modified: 2024-01-07 16:23

The woman is like a battery. Because the main thing she works with is energy. She accumulates it, transforms it, spends it. And so on without stopping. Energy is different, and each is stored in a separate compartment. Here a woman collects sexual energy, and here - the lunar one, here - the energy of the Earth, here - the energy of Water ….

There is one more compartment where the most scarce energy in the modern world is stored. Scarce and therefore most desired by many. This is the energy of Motherhood. Why is it scarce and rare?

On the street I come across different women. Very sexy, feminine, stylish, tortured, tired, businesslike. They can be with children, strollers, bicycles. But very rarely I come across Moms.

If we buy a piano, this does not mean that we are becoming pianists. Having a scalpel in our hands does not make us surgeons. Having received a DSLR does not make us photographers. So it is with children. If I gave birth to a child, this does not mean that I have become a Mom.

But it doesn't even occur to us. We are ready to study for five years at the institute in order to correctly fill out the accounting papers, but in motherhood we expect everything to happen by itself. It would be strange if the bus was driven by the person who just saw it. It would be even worse if the pilot of the plane was the one who saw in the movies how these planes are landed. Imagine a surgeon who has watched the entire series of "House", but has no medical education.

Why are we sure in family life and in motherhood that everything will work out by itself? Isn't it so scary to break something? Or does it seem that there is nothing to break? Something will really work out - nature intended it so. And a child will be born, and milk will appear. But even here, with our brains, we can interfere with the natural process and the course of events. We may decide that our breasts are not designed to be fed (and what are they created for then?). Or that our body was not created in order to give birth on its own (but how did it conceive and endure on its own?).

We want to have children, but we don't want to become mothers. We want to look like we've never given birth. We want to live as if we have no children. We want to hear the surprised "do you really have children ???". It seems to us pleasant and pleasing to the ear. Only are these compliments and achievements?

Children become dots on our “list of achievements”, but they cannot become a part of our life, a piece of our heart. Unfortunately. We never go through our own transformation, change of heart, change of our energy. That is why we are so afraid to grow old, get fat and become homely clucks.

In the world, sexy women are held in high esteem, business, successful - whatever, but not mothers. Mothers receive the minimum benefits, are considered kept women, dependents, loafers. They are not respected, no one wants to be equal to them. Nobody wants to be a mother. Only - to have children. Have kids and stay the same, sexy and business. Such girls look at us from TV screens, billboards, from magazine strips. They become role models. This feminine energy is exploited right and left, because it sells well and kindles lust in people - and therefore consumption. Consumption is beneficial to the material world, and lust is also beneficial. But motherhood is not. Because this energy relaxes, makes a person happy with what he already has - no sales and spontaneous purchases.

We see those who gave birth to a child two months ago, and today they are already participating in the underwear show. And we believe that this is right, good. We are given an example of those who go to work when the child is barely six months old. We strive with all our might to do the same.

• But tell me, is there anything normal in the fact that the mother of a month old baby leaves him with nannies and goes to “lose weight” even to the detriment of milk?
• And what good is that other people do not see you as motherhood? After all, since they do not see it, it means that he is not there …
• Can a woman be considered a mother who has just given birth to a child, but did not make an effort to raise it?
• Has a woman become a mother who practically does not see her child and does not know at all what is in his heart?
• Is there much motherhood in those whose minds are busy and absorbed only in work and their own appearance?
• How can motherhood coexist with unwillingness to spoil the shape of the breast by feeding or unwillingness to endure labor pain, preferring caesarean?
• If a mother wants to look like a twenty-year-old girl at any cost, what will become of her when her daughter turns twenty?
• Is it a mother who creates an atmosphere of stress, race and constant dissatisfaction at home?
• Is one considered a mother who is indifferent to the needs of other children around her?
• Can a woman be considered a real mother who has no compassion for other mothers?
• Is it normal, having barely given birth, already to participate in some outings, to go on vacation alone, to hang out? After all, the first months of a child are especially valuable. This is such an intimate and sacred time for the mother that it is unwise to spend it on entertainment and work. At this time, our soul opens up and is ready to undergo transformation. To become not just a woman, but a mother. Learn to love with a full heart. Learn to Be. Be in the mother's flow of energy. Nature gives us this chance with the help of hormones. Only we prefer not to use this chance.

One friend of mine is not very old. But she has enough children. She looks really good. In a different way it is good. She doesn't look like a teenage girl. But the main thing is not how she looks or dresses. You won't even remember that. As soon as she enters the room, it seems that you have been wrapped up with love in a warm blanket. You personally. Like you are the most important person here. It becomes very cozy, warm, soulful. The body relaxes, slows down. At the same time, she did not even open her mouth, she just entered.

When a woman spreads the energy of motherhood, men stop perceiving her as a sexual object. They unconsciously begin to treat her like their mother (in the good sense of the word). Help, care, surround with attention. This is respect, reverence, and care. All this can be obtained by a woman if she is in a mother's condition.

In Vedic times, all women were called "mother" - and it is prescribed for all women, except for their wife, to be treated like a mother. All women are now treated as females of the human race. Sorry to be so rude, but I can't find another word. They want to enjoy us - to see our beautiful naked bodies, to enter into relationships with these bodies.

The world is not lacking not sexy ladies, not business women, not beauties in bikinis. And not even teachers, doctors and cooks. This world is hungry, but it is starving in the absence of real Mothers in it. This world, as my teacher says, is thirsty. But this is not ordinary thirst and not ordinary hunger. Most people have both food and water. But there is no light in the soul, there is no warmth of hearts. And the need for this is enormous. For someone to warm our soul with his soul: so that next to someone you can relax. Be yourself. At the same time, be loved and warm. As if you were personally wrapped in a warm blanket. This is possible only next to a real woman, but more precisely, with a real mother.

We were so carried away by the revival of femininity, we got involved in sexual practices, we began to develop our attractiveness that we devalued motherhood. We are becoming women, which is great considering that we used to strive to become men. But isn't it time for us to go further in our femininity, to become not just women, but mothers? After all, this is a more difficult level, more solid and more rewarding.

Mother is not an entry in the passport in the column "children", it is something more. This is neither a professional education diploma, nor an entry in a work book. Mother is a way of thinking and a way of feeling, these are values and energy. There is more than words can describe - even in this book. This energy is in each of us. But most of them doze. It is rejected by many because it is not very convenient and does not bring the necessary dividends right away. Many people cannot appreciate its depth and only see the upper layers. Many are simply afraid of her, hanging strange labels. And most have never touched her, even having children.

The energy of the mother is the energy in which a woman should stay ninety percent of the time. You only need to switch when you are alone with your husband - and there you have to release your sexy kitty (and even then not all the time). In all other situations, being a mother is safer and more rewarding. But - alas - not prestigious. For this they do not give awards, diplomas, do not applaud and do not even pay salaries. Here is such a paradox - what is most needed in this world now remains the most low-prestige and low-paid activity.

How to understand that this energy is maternal? How does it look and feel?

• When you are in this maternal flow of energy, there are no your own and other people's children for you. You treat all the little ones in your path equally well. You feed any of them without differentiating between them.
• When you are in this flow, for you and any adult is like your child. And you can treat him not condescendingly, but with love. Understand, forgive, accept. One day you will even notice that no one is trying to offend you. Because a real mother is a deficit, and people feel it.
• A woman in the state of the Mother is in no hurry, in no hurry. This state of flow is measured, powerful. This is no longer a turbulent mountain stream, but a wide and full-flowing river with tremendous strength and power. On the surface of such a river, you will not see unnecessary movements, it flows on its own business, having every right to do so and all the possibilities.
• The mother is able to pacify space - this is precisely her task, her flow and her peculiarity. She is able to balance her mind and fill the surrounding space with fluid and even a little viscous peace and quiet.
• Mother's energy comes from above, so you cannot empty yourself in caring for others. You work as a guide, become the hands of God on this Earth, beginning to love and warm His children.
• And for the same reason, the state of the Mother always implies that you are "connected" to the Source at the moment. If you lose contact, then, alas, you drop out of the flow.
• Everything that Mother does is done with Love. With an open heart. Even if she has to punish the child, her open heart does so in such a way that the child does not feel hurt. Because everything is out of love and with love.
• Mother's energy in a woman brings her to balance between body and soul - she has contact with both. There is balance, harmony in self-awareness, wholeness, completeness.

You can describe these amazing women for a long time. I confess that I myself am pleased to talk about them, because such pleasant sensations from memories appear in the body. I myself am far from ideal, this is still my guideline.

We are either in this stream or we are not. Half measures do not exist. Energy is in everyone, but not everyone is allowed to rule the ball. Unfortunately.

And in fact, being in this stream does not depend on whether the woman has given birth or not. Many girls in their childhood years live in this state, until they are explained that it is wrong. Then, all their lives, they will carry out other people's instructions that being a mother is not enough. Not enough for what?

Of course, during pregnancy and after childbirth, nature helps us to enter this stream. But this is just one of the options. Which is not suitable for everyone. And many childless women just have to take this exam - to learn to be in this stream, to become a mother before you have a child. Because a real mother cannot be without children. If this energy blooms in you, you will definitely have children. They will be attracted to you like bees to an opening flower. And it will not matter to you - whether they are relatives or not - which God gave, they are all yours.

But if I'm not a flower yet, or even a bud, if I just want to have my own bees? If I chase after them, lure them into my nets in different ways and devices, will I get what I want? Maybe yes - for a while I will have my own bees. But I will not become a flower. And of their own free will, these bees will no longer come to me.

The state of the Mother is a tremendous force, tremendous power. This is what our world needs so much now. This is why our souls yearn, cherishing grievances against our parents.

The reason for all our childhood traumas is only one thing - there was no Real Mom with us. Our Mothers did not learn this, they were not up to it. And now we are looking for these Moms everywhere, again stepping on the rake. Instead of finding this energy within yourself. And heal not only our wounds, but also the sores of those who are next to us.

Being a mother is not easy. It is always more difficult to be than just to have or to be able to. To be is always a transformation, often through pain and “I can’t”. But to be is also a huge force, power, a huge resource.

And if we are talking about motherhood, then being a mother is not only important, but also vital now. The whole world needs it. Our children. And to ourselves.