Male infantilism

2024 Author: Seth Attwood | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 15:55

Some time ago I called my friends infantiles. After observing their behavior, I clearly saw this feature!

A week later, a friend asks me: "Why did you call us infantile?" It hooked him, and he understands that he has this quality! Then a second friend calls, and he has an incomprehensible situation with his wife: he lives with his wife, loves another who has a child, and calls his abode with his wife a prison cell!

And then it dawned on me! Male infantiles have become a significant part of our society! And this is not normal, it is dangerous for the younger generation!

What is infantilism?

An infantile person is a big child who relieves himself of responsibility for making decisions and waits for someone else to decide life situations for him! He is in the position: I want it to be mine, I want it and that's it. Give it to me!

ME AND ADULT LIFE

All children's whims in style to receive something from a mother, an adult infantile implements as an indispensable installation to receive at all costs, but already in adulthood. Usually he himself does not know how to do it, so this is where such a steady complaint and indignation came in the direction of dissatisfaction with the government, wife, director, and, in principle, anyone, but someone is necessarily to blame, but not me!

And with the example of my friend, who lives with his wife as in a prison cell, I can confirm the stated idea.

He became relatively successful due to family ties, but also partly through his efforts - for this great respect. I got married, but I got bored. He returned to the young love of 15 years ago, and then there is already a child, and experience, and all the cases. And then he, like an adult child, shouts: I want that very young one, without a child and without worries! How is this possible? Do not know. I want it and that's it, I'm a little child, that's my whim!

After all, my mother fulfilled my whims, and why can't this woman fulfill my whim? After all, I'm used to being able to fulfill my whims, And why aren't they doing it now? Ah well! Then I'll start drinking!

So that everyone thinks how unhappy and deprived I am!

Maybe someone will understand! I will give everything to him! But I will ask again to fulfill my whims like my mother and grandmother!

EDUCATION OF INFANTILISM BY THE SYSTEM

We all know the series "Real Boys"? Let's look at the heroes of this series of men.

Kolyan. Henpecked, indecisive, constantly mowing, stupid, naive, controlled by Lera, decisive, self-confident and status above Kolyan. Edik. Blatant infantile. unable to solve anything, always in loans, insecure and constantly crying about and without.

Bazanov. Eternal mama's son, unable to solve anything without the participation of his mother! And plus to everything he chooses as a wife, a prostitute!

One Ivanitch builds everyone. But he is unattainable in the ideological background of the series.

He's too cool, and we're just real guys. It seems to be funny to everyone, it seems to be a humorous series.

But this is the main trump card of programming and the destruction of the institution of the family, when ideas are conveyed simply and with humor, as an experienced advertiser, I can confirm that in order to shove ideas into the layman, you need to submit it fervently and cheerfully!

What does all this teach? To be a schmuck in the eyes of a woman, where women: Valya, Lera, Masha are decisive and persistent persons. And you are a servant in their life! The result of such a bias in the relationship is likely to destroy the institution of the family.

That is what we see. That women "take pictures" of men.

Men run after women, become gigolo. Women are in business, they are getting stronger. But does it have to be so? Therefore, families fall apart. Children do not have fathers and this breeds more and more infantiles!

A man can be different, creative, charismatic, but the main thing is intellectual and decisive, the main thing is a man who can with dignity defend his honor and the honor of his chosen one! Therefore, Men, work on decisiveness, create situations so that you can make decisions, training your intellect on your own, thereby corroding infantilism drop by drop !! And also keep your word. He said and did!

This defines a man, and not these illusory fitness muscles, which would seem to make a man masculine, but oddly enough, on the contrary, cutesy and dependent on his appearance, namely his appearance, as a defining component, and not as a continuation of it. unique essence!

Nikita Volobuev