Our ancestors created LAD in the family

2024 Author: Seth Attwood | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 15:55

The spouses openly talked to each other about their grievances and asked for forgiveness for their mistakes, talked about their experiences in connection with this or that spouse's behavior, about what was pleasant or unpleasant for them, discussed issues of raising children, relationships with parents and other relatives, shared what they had enough in the relationship, and what they would like to receive more from their spouse … And they did not leave the house until the issues were resolved, until each of the parties felt satisfied with the communication that took place.

In fact, they had at their disposal the time until the evening (or until the morning), that is, a certain deadline was set for the end of the "negotiations", and therefore both the husband and wife understood that the time was limited, and on some issues they would have to go on concessions.

Perhaps you will immediately have a question, but can't you immediately say what you don't like? Why wait? The fact is that in this case the principle of "do not cut it hot" was observed, that is, the spouses had time to think about whether they were really right in their grievance, it was time to understand themselves, and only after that to endure what remained unresolved on family council. Of course, if suddenly someone could not endure until the appointed day, and he needed to speak out, no one said to each other “no, let's wait!”)).

This practice gave both the woman and the man an opportunity to be sure that they would be heard, that they would be able to express what was important to them, that they would not have “unfinished” feelings and situations.

Agree that in our energetic rhythm of life it is not always easy to find time to sit down and talk heart to heart, and highlighting such a day is that stopping point that can help to live in harmony and harmony.

Naturally, in order for such a day to be established, the desire of both spouses and their correct attitude towards communication is needed. Perhaps people who are not used to talking about their feelings, are used to carrying everything in themselves, at first it will be difficult to open up, but, as they say, appetite comes with eating! It is very important for spouses to talk to each other, it is important to clarify some things, it is important to live in trust and mutual understanding. And this practice is one of the possible steps towards this.

On this day, you can tell each other about a lot … You can think about how you will develop together on all four levels - physical, social, intellectual and spiritual

In Russia, this ceremony was called JOY - that is, setting common goals for the coming week.

So let us use the experience of our Glorious Ancestors and create HAPPY FAMILIES, where each of the spouses is in a state of goodness, gratitude and satisfaction. After all, it is the happy families that make the WORLD HARMONIOUS!