Why women in Russia never cut their hair

2024 Author: Seth Attwood | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 15:55

For a long time, women of all ages and all classes in Russia and in the Moscow state knew one and only hairstyle - a braid. Girls decorated their braids with ribbons or braids, women - covered them with a warrior. However, the braid was not just a hairstyle.

Two are better than one

Before marriage, girls wore one braid. At a bachelorette party, girlfriends, howling and crying, probably due to envy, twisted one braid into two. It was two braids that were worn by married women in Russia. They were placed as a crown on the head or tied with a ribbon to make it easier to put on the headdress. Since the woman's marriage, no one, except her husband, naturally has seen her braids again. Interestingly, the old maidens were strictly forbidden to weave one braid into two, they were also forbidden to wear a kokoshnik.

Vitality

For little girls, so-called three-beam braids were braided, which symbolized the trinity. The scythe was located strictly in the direction of the spine, since, according to our ancestors, it served to fill a person through the ridge with vital forces. It is no coincidence that when women got married, two braids were braided: one braid nourished her with life, and the other - future offspring.

We read on the scythe

The braid wasn't just a haircut. She could tell a lot about her owner. So, if a girl wore one braid, then she was in "active search".

Is there a ribbon in the braid? A maiden of marriageable age, and all potential candidates must urgently send matchmakers. If two ribbons appeared in the braid, and they were woven not from the beginning of the braid, but from its middle, then “dry the oars”, or, as they say, who didn’t have time, he was late: the girl had a groom. And not just the one who makes eyes and plays at exchanges, but the official one, because the ribbons also meant the blessing received from the parents for marriage.

Sacred ritual

Combing the hair was like a sacred ritual, because during the procedure it was possible to touch the vital energy of a person. Apparently, in order to restore the vitality that was lost during the day, it was required to run a comb through the hair at least forty times. Babies could only be combed by their parents, and then the person himself performed this daily procedure. Interestingly, the girl could allow only her chosen one or her husband to unravel her braid and comb her hair.

Symbol of honor

For women, the braid was the same symbol of honor as for men - a beard. To pull the braid meant to offend the girl, let alone cut her hair. Once, in a rage, one gentleman cut off a thin pigtail for his maid, and then calmed his indignant peasants, and even paid a fine. By the way, those who dared to rip, for example, a woman's headdress, were also punished with serious fines. Only the fines, it seems, went not at all to improve the morale of the victim, but to the state treasury.

Change the life

The fact that hair cutting radically changes life seems to be well known in the old days. Hence the sign that has survived to this day that it is extremely undesirable for pregnant women to cut their hair. Voluntarily, and sometimes with reverent trepidation, only women who were in a state of severe mental shock, for example, during the monastic tonsure, allowed to cut off their braids. Hair in Ancient Russia did not have the habit of cutting at all, and this custom has been preserved in modern men's monasteries.

Women's tricks

A braid as thick as a hand was considered the standard of female beauty in Russia. Healthy and shiny hair could say better than the words of flattering matchmakers about a future wife. Unfortunately, not all beauties could boast of thick long braids. Of course, they did not even hear about building up in Russia. So the young ladies resorted to deception - they weaved hair from ponytails into their pigtails. And what to do, everyone wants to get married!