What prevents modern men and women from being happy?

2024 Author: Seth Attwood | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 15:55

What prevents modern men and women from being happy? Especially happy together?

I will answer you - WAR. The war between a man and a woman, which began long ago - when the Goddess left this world, retired to her cradle, leaving her smile in the souls of women. So, in any case, the myths say. And soon, when the Darkness crawled into the souls of people - I do not know who or what opened the gates to human souls - the War began. The greatest and most destructive, which has been going on for more than one millennium, but every year it takes away millions of souls. This war is not obvious, it is rooted in our habits, everyday customs so that it became invisible. And that is why she is terrible. And now - people cannot meet, get to know each other, there are only a few happy families … - is it worth continuing this nightmare list?

So why, you ask, how to stop this war?

I do not know how to stop this all over the earth, but I believe that it is possible to do this in every family, if, thanks to the spiritual effort of companions united in a family, one small miracle happens - CONSCIOUSNESS.

O (the whole world) - co (joint) - knowledge. If the whole world turns to the knowledge given to us by our ancestors.

To do this, you need to understand that everyone, yes, everyone, regardless of desire, is involved in this war. How? Through charm - "attached attention." It is no coincidence that the words "enchant", "enchantment" had a negative connotation in the popular perception. Charm is created in several ways: firstly, the substitution of values - there has been a "fashion for bodies" for more than one century - every century, with a change in cultural philosophy, the so-called standard of beauty changes, and it is no secret that every century he is further away from natural ideas. If even 2 centuries ago, a beautiful woman was considered a figure, moral, moral foundations that make her a potentially good mother, now the standard of a beautiful woman is a reptile like creature with no behavioral, moral ideas about motherhood and family life.

Secondly, the creation of myths that create a person's attachment to goals and concerns at the level of only the physical body, without care and attention to the Soul and Spirit. These myths, in fact, are not pitting opposites, but equally important parts, leading them to death.

We will try to list these myths:

The myth of equality

In times that in modern philosophy and history are considered "wild", even during the formation of world religions, among completely different cultures there was a concept of "the task of a man" and "the task of a woman", which were not opposed anywhere - neither in China nor in Egypt - but they were different. Only after the emergence of Islam and Christianity did the idea of "inferiority", "sinfulness" of a woman in relation to a man emerge. The development of this myth according to the principle of a pendulum has led to the emergence of such a modern disease as feminism, which is now parasitic on the body of society. As a result, this led to the fact that a man and a woman changed places, that is, they do not fulfill their divine destiny - a man is no longer Ost, Kol is no longer a vector, a direction, and a woman is Kol, a bowl. And as a result, stake and stake no longer form a unity - Bells! No Sounding Souls Together! This means that there is no Peace!

The myth about "the peculiarities of the male body, which cannot live without sex"

This myth was created during the fall of the ancient Roman Empire, when orgies became a common pastime for the nobility. As a result - almost 90% of modern relationships begin in bed - a test of sexual compatibility becomes a test of family relationships. Pastel becomes the way to keep your partner! “First we'll sleep, then we'll create a family” - the art is not about “sleeping”! And even the "open" law of telegony, or rather the scientifically proven ancient Slavic law of Rita, did not just sink into oblivion - it was skillfully cut off - in modern more or less "enlightened" society there is an opinion that only women are subject to the effect of telegony! And this is war again! Because it is not - and any livestock breeder will tell you that!

The myth about "the peculiarities of the human soul - male, female, etc."

This myth is supported by such illusions:

• “Men don't cry” (like, strength is restraint) - the result is that men are closed, the cult is a tough, aggressive, arrogant bumpkin.
• “Girls should not fight” - the result - women consider the moral and physical bullying of men to be the norm and do not know how and do not want to defend themselves, taking the position of “slave” for a normal female role.
• “If a man beats, it means he loves” (“pulling the pigtails means you’ll run into it”), etc.
• The result of this myth is that people are not natural, closed, afraid, do not know how and are embarrassed to show their feelings or do it in ugly ways. Hence the desire to "like it, showing itself from the best side" - Not yourself, but the best side - not all of yourself! And this is a DECEPTION !! And they show mostly the body, not the soul!

The myth of the transience of the possibility of receiving divine good

I must say that the good is mainly in the representation of material wealth. This can be well shown through the common phrase: "A modern woman must provide for herself - first a career, fame, then a family" among modern men, there is also an opinion that first material benefits, and then a family. Both of them forget that the development of material wealth is possible only when there is a goal. After all, money is not a piece of paper, it is just energy. And energy, as you know, comes only where there is an opportunity for development, where "the circuit is capable of opening and increasing" (physics). That is, when there is a goal - the answer to the question: "Why do you need this?" - and the answer to it cannot be simply: "I want" - this is not a goal. And this in Russia was very well explained by two concepts-images: Koschey and Bogatyr. A small excursion into history. Bogatyr is a word that comes from two etymological roots: god and tyrit (Art. - to own). A bogatyr is “one who owns God,” that is, he develops his talents, which means he is rich both spiritually and materially, because when you develop, then everything from the world comes to you (from teachers, information to money), because the bogatyr has a goal - to move towards God. The opposite concept in fairy tales is reflected in the image of Koshchei, and not by chance. The word "Koschey" comes from the word "koschey" - bone, ossified and etymologically associated with such a concept as "koschna" - a robber's bag, where everything falls indiscriminately (and you understand the consequences of this) and "treasury" - wealth without development. Thus, Kashchei is the one who possesses wealth, but does not develop it, does not strive for God, therefore he “withers over gold,” therefore he is a symbol of death. Death for the Slavs is a lack of development. Therefore, the one who simply "wants", but does not know why, will never be rich spiritually and materially - he is not a hero - Kashchei in essence … And this is what modernity calls for through: an arms race, a race of values ("who has a cooler car", "who has more money") - a race of bodies, of the treasury. And in this race, people forget about souls and families.

What does the family have to do with it? I explain that the main goal of man is the embodiment on earth of the task that the spirit has set for itself. Everything on earth creates together with others - from stones to animals and plants. And only modern man tries to resist this. A seed cannot germinate without agreement with the earth, insects, water, sky, worms, etc. therefore, a person can realize his task only in the community - in the FAMILY. It is no coincidence that the saying has survived to this day: "God gave a child - he will give everything for a child."A child in a family is born only with the consent of the parents - that is, if they have a common goal and they know how to come to an agreement. A child is an indicator of the goodness of the goal of the parents. This means both the number of children and the wealth of the family - it all depends on who the parents are - Bogatyrs or Koschei - what is their goal.

The myth of the hierarchy, the pyramid of everything - from the biological chain to the structures of society

This myth is based on the theory that someone can be lower and someone higher, which means closer to God, which means that they have the right to be called "the chosen one." On the basis of this, the theory of slavery, castes, "the working class and the intelligentsia", the relationship "boss and subordinate" was created, and what is most terrible is how a family is created - "older means smarter", "eggs do not teach a chicken", "a woman should be at home sit and be silent when a man speaks, "and so on. - common "phrases", which are ways to start a conflict, to push two sides, without the interaction and harmony of which the whole world will collapse. So any, in fact, structure, built on the principle of hierarchy, which means the oppression of one by another is just a way of creating slavery, where there are slaves - those who have, and slave owners - those who have others. All this is the so-called "pyramid principle". This has never happened in Russia and in other countries in the Golden Age of the development of peoples! Remember how the most ancient symbol depicted the Sun - the face of God, all peoples - the Circle! What is the Earth? Also a Circle (only with a seven-point)! Therefore, in Russia there was Veche - a circle of wise men, elders of the clans; there was the concept of hurray - a circle of his own land, which a man had to defend; temple - a circle, cities - a circle, etc. Therefore, in nature, everything tends to a circle - an anthill, a crown of a tree, a planet, a circle of death and birth, and a biological food chain, etc. Therefore, the family is a circle: a child-parent-strict - and then, through death, the child again comes into the clan in his descendant. Therefore, varnas (castes) are a circle! And a true mentally purposeful enterprise - artel - circle! Etc.

The myth that personal changes are unnecessary

In the modern world there has long been an opinion, which is all expressed in one phrase: "He (she) must change, and accept me as I am." At first glance, everything is fine, but this is only at first glance. In fact, thanks to this, people get the opportunity to justify their laziness and do nothing, not change in their lives and not change themselves. As a result, this leads to the fact that people meet only comrades-in-arms, "mirrors", that is, with the same problems and "cockroaches" in their heads. And when building a family, this led to the emergence of families, where people only "mirrors" each other.

As a result, in the modern world, this has led to the fact that now there is not one "type" of family, but three: the mirror family, the peace family, and only the third true "type" - the companion family.

The mirror family is just the same family in which people are attracted only on the basis of common pain. And they, as in a mirror in their companion, see their own pain - shortcomings, unresolved situations, aggression, etc. For example, she perceives the advice of her parents as a restriction of freedom, and he, too, met, without understanding deeper, got married. Relationships in such a family are based on the principle: “I don’t notice a log in my own eye - I’ll see a speck in another”. That is, any quarrels, scandals look the same: “everyone thinks the other is a freak, despite the fact that he is a freak” (L. Filatov) - your “pranks” of each other are like a nuclear war with a hundred percent hitting a projectile - there is only one pain! You stick another there, which is 100% of the person himself - it may be expressed through different actions, but there is! Therefore, wars in such families are a terrible thing. But this family also has its own plus: in another, as in the mirror you can see yourself. To do this, remember: “like is attracted to like” - that is, look at what annoys you, makes you angry, unnerving in your companion (not only in your spouse, but in any life partner) - these qualities are 100% in you. Therefore, do not seek to change a person. And it’s impossible. Change yourself.

Peaceful family - a family where companions have come together in common interests "for now". These are people who are friends. They don't think about the future. They are brought together by explicit goals. For example, he is fond of metaphysics and she too - they took, got married. This is not bad, but very often later it turns out that both, yes, dreamed of a house, but one about a brick house and in the city, and the other about a wooden one and in the country. And it is not always possible to build something in common. And already, as a rule, by the time of the "discovery" that the goals are different, there are already children.

And a family where people are companions to each other is the only present - they have a common fairy tale - dreams of the future. And this unites them forever, even if they are with different hobbies, money status, appearance - a clear world. For they are united by Rule - common aspirations.

Therefore, in the end, in the modern world, all Cinderella dreams of princes, but without developing, they never meet them; the one who “grows” to a princess without development remains so at the age of 40 and 50, next to the same naive 50-year-old prince - without development they never become Kings and Queens. Remember: applying for someone does not yet know how to be one, and this does not mean that you will reach a higher level without effort.

The myth of skin-to-skin contact

Modern people understand by touch, basically, two types: medical (examine, touch - make a verdict) and "sexual" or as they are also called "intimate". Some even think that: "There are only intimate touches." And almost everyone falls into the trap of these judgments. If in a friendly relationship this is all just a confirmation of this philosophy, then in a family it becomes one of the ways of destroying relationships: married couples either touch each other and look for flaws, finding fault with each other's figure or body condition, playing the "evil doctor", or lasciviously "pawing" each other. In the first case, there is such a concentration on the body, which leads to the formation of complexes, self-flagellation, and therefore constriction, oppression of oneself and the other - and this is a betrayal of the vessel of God, which is the body. And in view of the habit, the persecution of each other intensifies every year, but nothing changes. In the second case, this led to the fact that modern people know how to have sex (from the word "sekti" - circumcision - lat.), Sexual relations (sex is what dirt collects on), but they do not know how to give joy to each other, strength, to admire each other as gods, which means that creativity at the call of the child turns into a purely mechanical act, where parents do not hear and do not feel the moment of the arrival of God!

The management myth

In the modern world, it is represented by the judgment: "Trust, but verify, and better manage." The result is the improvement in the modern world of management methods - deception, which once led to the separation and opposition of languages, peoples, etc. And at the heart of this is the difference of INTERPRETATION (popular term) - some kind of internal translator, which is part of the mind (mind-mind - at once the mind is given, a template). It, interpretatively, leads to the fact that even in one language different people mean different things under the same words on the first reflex. For example, the word pen - one sees a child's pen inside the consciousness, the other - a ballpoint. As a result, a race of images arises - the one who quickly creates such a combination of images that implies his own point of view wins, which at the same time will not cause protest from the listener, creating a substitution of images, but will lead, as a result of interaction, to a beneficial result for the speaker. And this is management.

The myth of "righteous" lies or the game

In the modern world, as a result of the above reasons, a person gets used to living closed, hiding, instead of the face of the soul, "slipping" various "sides" to each other - masks, learned roles. Playing this theater of deception, a person gradually ceases to distinguish where he is real, where is his mask - the mask grows. And as a result, a person does not know his soul, does not see it, does not feel - he himself becomes a mask, harei - undead, as the people called it. And the worst thing is that the undead will always find beautiful words to justify their lies.