Video: The image of a warrior-defender is the basis for the upbringing of male character and fortitude in boys
2024 Author: Seth Attwood | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 15:55
Why is the male character fading away before our eyes among young men - young men? But which of the parents, teachers, representatives of the authorities at least once really thought: is this how we, in fact, raise our boys? Who turned to the wisdom of past generations and compared how boys were brought up in national educational cultures and how we are bringing them up today?
Nowadays a crafty thought-stamp is widespread: "We live in a different time." But not on momentary "innovations", but on the eternal laws of humanization of every human child who came into this world, the male personality and male character in boys, the female personality and female character in girls should be recreated. And if the feminine principle still dominates in girls, then in boys there is no such predetermination.
The fact is that a girl is born with a double female "X" chromosome, and boys are born with one male "Y" chromosome and one female "X" chromosome. Consequently, boys are born genetically half-female-half-male. And great disasters have more than once fell on the head of the people who refused the long and laborious process of forming boys according to the laws of arrogance.
That is why, in order to become a real man, a boy must conquer all the hormonal feminine principles in himself and be born a second time in courage. And not just in external courage (image), but in hormonal, and from here - in hormonal-genetic. And it is no coincidence that only courageous boys once have a full-fledged voice mutation.
In "feminine" young men, the voice mutation is always incomplete, always incomplete. And today we see such young men around us in full. Girls who develop in accordance with their female nature do not and should not have such a mutation. That is why boys and girls are two different hormonal-genetic worlds, which need completely different strategies for upbringing - humanization.
And is it not surprising that not now, but in antiquity, peoples have always paid special attention to the formation of young men courageous in spirit. And for this they created the methods of folk cultures, with the help of which the boys overcame and conquered the primary "semi-feminine" nature in themselves. And this was achieved only by struggle and victory over the fear instinct. Only in this way is the strength of the spirit forged, overcoming the strength of fear - the strength thanks to which boys are embodied in courageous youths and real men.
Note: girls are relieved of fear only by the feeling of security and love on the part of a courageous young man. Surprisingly, even the very nature of boys is initially directed towards trials that overcome fear. War games and competitions occupy a special place here. That is why, in natural conditions, boys are grouped and play only with boys, and girls - only with girls."
“But who will our boys turn into and who will they grow up to if, initially, at the stage of semi-feminine nature, at the stage of the highest sensitivity and ability to incarnate (and reincarnate), they“dissolve”among older girls in spiritual and genetic age? We are talking about the mixing of boys and girls by calendar age in preschool and then school institutions. In whom under these conditions our boys will be embodied if:
• Do girls have qualitatively different preferences, games, interests, fantasies, imaginations?
• Are they dominated by insecurity and fear?
• Will girls necessarily impose on boys their purely “girlish” games, values and preferences, that is, basic character traits?
Who will our boys turn into if they find themselves under female control that corrects their behavior: to be as obedient, diligent "goodies" as girls? If the life of maturing boys is to be turned into a continuous relay race of passing from one woman’s hands to another? If the main algorithm of female upbringing is instilling fear in boys - the fear of falling, hurting himself, damaging something, cutting himself, stumbling, sneezing, coughing, getting a bad mark? And so on ad infinitum.
Whether we like it or not, with our own hands, from birth to graduation from school, we immersed our boys in women's anxiety, anxiety, fears, in women's ideas about “what is good, what is bad,” in women's adaptation to the prevailing conditions. life, in the feminine desire to escape from dangers, escape to eternal security, etc.
As a result, the boys were created according to the female emotional "patterns", according to the female "image and likeness". And if for the upbringing of girls this is their norm, then for the upbringing of boys it is a fundamental breakdown of their masculine nature.
The consequences of such a breakup were tragic both for society and for future families. The psycho-complexes of effeminate young men, nurtured by female hands, turned out to be tragic and insurmountable. Lawyers, psychologists know: almost all gigolo, homosexuals, drug addicts, serial sexual maniacs-murderers, pedophiles and other degenerates are united by the main thing - infantilism in a masculine spirit, inability to take responsibility, “femininity” of the worldview.
As a doctor, I say: the growing epidemic of people with non-traditional sexual orientation is not their whim, it is not their promiscuity. This is our common misfortune. These are natural consequences of upbringing and education that is alien to the nature of boys and girls."
(V. Bazarny "Human Child", fragment)
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