A knock on the door! Come for your child. What to do?
A knock on the door! Come for your child. What to do?

Video: A knock on the door! Come for your child. What to do?

Video: A knock on the door! Come for your child. What to do?
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You open the door. There are 4 people in front of you: two aunts, a local precinct officer and another representative of the security forces in uniform. The older lady asks to be allowed into the apartment, and without waiting for an answer, takes a step forward. Along the way, he gives out a memorized text about the fact that they are from social services and that they received a signal that your child is being brought up in inappropriate, unacceptable conditions.

There is a swarm of thoughts in my head: "What kind of signal?.. what are the conditions?.. WHAT IS HAPPENING IN GENERAL ?!" The aunts, without taking off their shoes, go into the hall and look around like a business. A 6-year-old daughter has also recently woken up and is looking at her early guests with curiosity. My aunt, which is more important, says something else about the new laws and about the need to take care of your children. Everything is as if in a fog … and in a friend: "We are forced to temporarily withdraw your child. Until the facts of improper conditions of keeping the child are eliminated."

"Yes, some nonsense! NO!" … The district police officer takes a step towards your daughter. You rush to the child instinctively. But the second policeman is blocking your way …

You say, a dream? No. This has been a reality for a couple of years in the vastness of Russia (including the Far East).

Despite the violent protests from the public, juvenile technologies are being introduced everywhere in our country. The principles of strict control over families are enshrined in legislation, the possibilities for the selection of children are significantly expanded.

There is already a lot of sad Russian experience. Even though the State Duma has not yet adopted specific juvenile bills (in October 2012, they were removed at the last moment from the agenda due to the delivery of 146,000 letters of protest against them to Putin's cabinet a day earlier; they were collected by The Essence of Time, " All-Russian parental resistance "and other public organizations throughout the country).

However, serious elements of juvenile justice, close to world "standards", have ALREADY been introduced on the ground in pilot: in Rostov, Nizhny Novgorod and Saratov regions, in Moscow, St. Petersburg and other regions (in violation of the Constitution and other laws of Russia). Test elements and other YuY developments are used in all regions of Russia. They are just directively descending from above. The Far East is no exception.

There is no need to nightmare the guardianship authorities. Different people work there. They have a really tough job. Many work conscientiously. Honor and praise to them for that. But there is a disturbing reality and a general direction of the shift in the work of social services towards Yu. They are performers. They cannot work on their own. Therefore, you need to be fully armed.

Under the juvenile blow, first of all, "dysfunctional families": single mothers, families in difficult life situations, children raised by grandmothers. Cases of using guardianship to pressure parents (real estate, business interests, etc.) have become more frequent.

Be prepared to take this trouble away from your family.

Unfortunately, even quite prosperous, caring and loving parents run the risk of facing a visit from the guardianship authorities. And here the logic “I am a good parent, I have nothing to fear and therefore I am open to contact,” alas, does not work. After all, the risk of losing a child in the fight against the conductors of juvenile technologies is quite real. This is evidenced by the bitter experience of too many families. This is the case when vigilance should be shown from the very beginning - from the bell at your door. Therefore, let's calmly familiarize ourselves with the basic rules of conduct in the case of unexpected guests "with powers".

REMINDER

1. Never open a door without asking "Who is there?" There should be no visits at night!

2. If you see through the peephole that there are several people (commission) outside the door, or they tell you that they have come from “guardianship” / “social authorities”, then try not to meet the visitors alone. Do not give your first and last name through a closed door. Say that you cannot open the door yet (for example, you were forbidden to open the door, your child is sleeping, etc.), and immediately call for help yourself (several people - preferably relatives, neighbors, lawyers). The main thing is to show that you are fully armed and not alone (not alone)! Demand to postpone and agree with you the date and time of the visit by phone.

3. The commission from the guardianship authorities can enter the apartment only in two cases: if you give them permission or if they present the decision of the prosecutor. The bailiff also has the right to visit if there is a writ of execution.

4. Let's say that you still decide to talk to the commission. Open the door and go out onto the landing. In this case, the child should be at home next to a person close to you. Attention! During the visit of social workers, do not allow the child to approach them, hold his hand, in your arms. Completely eliminate the possibility of grabbing a child and running away from home! This scenario seems fantastic, but now, alas, it is already a reality.

5. Require each visitor to present documents: passport, identity card and the prosecutor's decision on a visit to your family, which indicates the reasons for the visit. Take a photo of all documents in the same place, right on the stairs. If they do not allow you to take pictures - in detail, without trying to save the time of visitors, rewrite all the data of the submitted documents. Prosecutor's decision - take pictures!

6. Be sure to organize video filming / recording on a dictaphone (this should be done by an individual person, not yourself)! Be warned that the video will be published! In turn, visitors are not allowed to make video and audio recordings without official (documentary) permission.

7. After letting the commission into your house (if you found it possible), lock the door with a key. Then, as the owner, confidently dictate the rules of conduct in your home. Inform visitors that they will need to take off their shoes. This will demonstrate that the home is kept clean. In addition, a person who is barefoot is psychologically more vulnerable. And most importantly: running barefoot with a child in your arms is rather difficult.

8. All visitors are required to wash their hands with soap and water, because “it is customary for us, and this is not discussed” (also a method of psychological pressure). Do not give permission to use the toilet (there are toilets outside).

9. In an apartment, it is important not to allow the "spreading" of the commission over the rooms. "Please follow me", "I did not invite you into that room to enter."

10. Don't settle for "rehabilitation centers".

11. Do not react to threats of deprivation of parental rights - these threats are very difficult to implement, this is done only through the court, and for such a decision, good reasons are needed. All threats of deprivation of parental rights or the removal of a child, ask to repeat in a dictaphone, with a request to clarify on the basis of what they want to deprive you of parental rights.

12. Don't sign anything. Remember: you are not a criminal, although you may have doubts about this at the sight of a high commission. At the end of the visit, you must draw up two copies of the "Act on the inspection of the living quarters." Photocopy the deed.

13. If you are offered to go somewhere for an examination, you can, in principle, agree (although the best option is “provide a doctor's home visit”), but don’t let the child out of your hands, go to the doctor with him (“I have the right to be present at all medical manipulations that are performed with my child ), otherwise (when you try to take the child to the office alone), turn around and leave. It is better to take a support group with you (relatives, friends) - they will not be able to take the child away, and it will be more difficult to put pressure on you, frighten, force you to do something.

14. After the visit of the guardianship, you need to play it safe: write an application to the head of the educational institution demanding not to give the child to anyone except you and your spouse / grandmother / nanny (indicating your full name and passport data), submit the application against receipt on a copy - “received, date, position, signature . In addition, notify all educators / teachers about the same, since now custody is increasingly coming to take children to schools and kindergartens. But even such a warning can not always help - if the representatives of the guardianship authorities have a formal basis (i.e., an appropriate prescription, see paragraph 15), then the children will be given to them.

15. You need to know that guardianship has the right to select children only when there is an immediate threat to life or health.

16. If you see that guardianship commits multiple violations, write a statement to the prosecutor's office about the unauthorized actions of guardianship and police officers.

17. Inform your relatives, the public about the problem, make a call to the nearest parent committee, ask for advice. It is better not to wait for the exacerbation of the situation and make it clear from the very beginning that it will not work to take your child away from you. ALWAYS contact the public, do not be left alone with juvenile trouble.

In Russia, the "Parent All-Russian Resistance" has created a single center for responding to illegal juvenile guardianship incursions into Russian families. We have the necessary specialists and local assets in the regions. Sufficient practical experience has been accumulated to counteract this. We are ready to respond promptly to cases of invasion of families.

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