How the inner world is reflected in the outer reality

2024 Author: Seth Attwood | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 15:55

Why does it happen so often - you strive to correct a state of affairs that you do not like, but you only get a short-term respite, and then the familiar overtakes you again. Fools, deceivers, losers. No money, no happiness, no love. Everything is disgustingly bad or insanely sad.

One of the reasons for the "vicious circle" is that the outer reality reflects the events of the inner world. For this, objects must be found: people and situations. Your own looks are fine too. Even natural phenomena are good for emergencies.

How it looks

“Winter is called. The end of December, and there was still no snow”: do you feel discontent?

“Where are you going, Lord! It is necessary to look forward! They bury themselves on the phone - they don't see anyone around!”: The person is angry, right?

"They bought cool cars, but forgot to learn the traffic rules": most likely, he envies.

“Cameras need to be installed everywhere - at the entrance, in the elevator, and in front of the apartment”: it seems that he is afraid.

"Nothing helps me and will not help me, it is useless to be treated": this is how despair manifests itself.

“I will increase my hair, I will look completely different and then …”: but then, it turns out, I still need to correct my lips, reduce my nose, enlarge my breasts, etc.

This is how an internal deficit or insufficiency can declare itself. When it comes to important decisions, it is quite a good form to think about not only rational pros and cons, but also emotional ones. That is, to hear - how is it inside. In everyday life, there is no time to think about it, but it's a pity.

What's happening

We "hang" our fortune on someone or something outside. Not on purpose. This is how our ego protects itself from something disturbing. When protection is used without fanaticism, it's okay, so you digest the internal situation. You suddenly take it and put things in order in the boxes or in the whole house at last. Then you find that your thoughts "settled down on the shelves." Another thing is when the protective process acquires the scale of a disaster, and you, unnoticed for yourself, constantly get rid of unbearable (for some reason) feelings, "distributing" them to the right and to the left. Because the downside of the process is this: the more internal content you throw away, the more your own “I” is depleted. Let's go back to the cleaning example. An attempt to cope with the internal chaos, cleaning the apartment, can turn into an obsessive repetition. A person will not go to bed until he has washed shelf after shelf, room by room, shoe by shoe, and so on, day after day. Only it doesn't get any easier for him.

Why do people avoid you

One problem with over-projecting is that we are ruining ourselves without wanting to. Getting rid of intolerable feelings, we leave an emptiness inside us. Any emotional outburst leads to a colossal loss of energy. Another problem is that we destroy relationships with others. Neither nature, nor the weather, nor our own appearance, nor the organism will be able to object to us. But people - close and not so - will try to reduce communication to nothing. No one wants to be a target-vessel for someone else's helplessness, insecurity, longing, or anger. (Although it would not hurt them to think about the reasons for the manifestation of such negative moments in their lives). When we only do what we project, our relations with loved ones first become tense to the limit, and then everything goes to hell. We are left alone.

How to be

Stop for a moment and look around, analyze your life - how did you find yourself in these circumstances and conditions that weigh on you and create negative emotional reactions, and why this happens. As a rule, in life we get only what we deserve. We create our own reality. And until we recognize the culprit of all those situations that caused our discontent, we will not be able to take a step towards changing life for the better. It is not always easy to admit to oneself that it is not other people who create problems for us, as we used to think (or is it convenient for us to think ?!), but ourselves! How do we usually get rid of problems in life? We are not satisfied with the work and the team - we quit, problems in the family - we get divorced, with people who condemn us or are simply unpleasant to us (again, think about why they are unpleasant to us?) We try not to communicate. We ourselves run away from those situations that are given to us in order for us to learn a certain lesson from them, because until this lesson is learned, situations will be repeated only in new conditions, into which we “ran away from problems”. They are already waiting for us there with open arms. We came to this world not to live in comfortable conditions that satisfy our ego, but for development. And there can be no question of any development if we do not work on ourselves, but only brush aside what compels us to change. It is easier to point out to others their shortcomings than to find them in yourself and demand from yourself first of all! “Change yourself - the world around you will change” is the basic rule that should accompany us in life. After all, the world is a mirror. What we see around reflects our inner state. The society in which we find ourselves, circumstances, living conditions - all this directly or indirectly indicates to us the state of affairs in our life.

Also, do not forget that the Universe is in harmony. Therefore, when the "balance" is disturbed, situations appear in our life that are designed to "correct" the created imbalance. You need to consciously stop complaining about fate and troubles haunting you. Remember that any difficulties and hardships in the future will turn out to be good for you. Depending on what your inner world is filled with, it will respond from the outside with certain changes. If you are overwhelmed with negative emotions, irritation and resentment, then do not expect love and understanding from the environment, but if good lives in your heart, you emit light, which means that it will be reflected to you.

Don't be afraid to change, start small. Do not be afraid to tell loved ones that you love them, give passers-by smiles! Just love life, and it will answer you in kind!

Believe me, this is just the beginning of a long journey. It is impossible not to mention a very important point here. Another trap you can fall into is waiting for the result. Of course, it is important what is the incentive for your changes, but if you, having completed your next good deed, expect an instant response from the world, then keep in mind - you are mistaken. Remember the law of balance - nothing will pass without a trace, everything will be rewarded … in due time. If nothing happens, then the motivation was selfish: "here I will do a good deed, and for this I am a" gift "from the Universe." And it does not matter what quality "gift" you expect, in the form of material wealth or spiritual. It is important that you are waiting for this for yourself! It is your true motives that will guide the Universe, measuring out this or that good as a reward.

As a popular saying goes: "To live for oneself is to smolder, for a family - to burn, for the people - to shine." As soon as your motivation for change is determined by the desire to do good for everyone, and not just for yourself or your close circle, as soon as you realize that you are a part of the whole and turn all your aspirations to change life for the better, for the good of all living, not limited to your secluded little world, from now on, you can be sure that you are on the right track. This is already a very high level of awareness, but now we can say with confidence that the way out of the notorious vicious circle is not far off.