Why do women refuse a DNA test?

2024 Author: Seth Attwood | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 15:55

If you go to any forum where DNA examination is discussed, I aim to establish paternity, if you read the comments under articles on this topic, then we will see that women boil with indignation at the mere mention of such a test. “What kind of normal guy would do this test? If he doesn’t trust his wife, then this is his problem.”“I see, he wants to jump off. Like my biological father is not me, so bring up yourself.

What kind of men are they? Shit, not men."

“Whom does he trust more, I wonder? Some kind of test or a loved one? " "A normal guy won't even have such questions, his child or not." “If my husband even mentions this test, I will divorce him immediately. I don't need a person who suspects me of everything. The family is built primarily on trust."

Why is it that a man's completely legitimate and just desire to make sure that the child is yours meets with such violent indignation of women? Let's take a symmetrical situation as an example. The children were confused in the maternity hospital, and now the mother is raising someone else's child. Why, a scandal will break out! There is even a criminal article for the substitution of children! How is it - a mother is raising someone else's child! And no one dares to say:

“So what, bring up a stranger. Children are not to blame. Not the mother who gave birth, but the one who raised. You will love as your own, if you have a heart."

On the contrary, everyone, everyone, from neighbors to deputies (if the story leaks on TV) will be on the side of the unfortunate woman. The same situation, but in relation to the father, is perceived as completely opposite.

If a mother wants to make sure that she has not been replaced, that the child has not been confused, this is her legal right. If the father wants to do the same - to make sure that his wife did not cheat on him - he is a scoundrel, a freak, almost a criminal. However, in some countries this desire of a man is already criminal. In Germany, a man does not have the right to conduct a paternity test on his own initiative. This is tantamount to interfering with a woman's privacy and is punishable by a substantial fine. In Russia, so far (thank God!) A man's desire to raise his own children, and not other people's children, has not been declared a crime. But women are totally against it. They threaten everyone up to divorce. And what divorce means for a man, we all know perfectly well. Why is it so? It would seem that if you are loyal to your husband, then no DNA test is dangerous to you. He will simply confirm that the child is from her husband. And everyone will calm down, and your husband will love you even more - after all, you are a faithful wife. But no - women are totally against it.

Let's figure out why. When DNA tests, not yet for establishing, but for excluding paternity, appeared in the United States, they were massively tested on the population. It was a long time ago, 40 years ago. Completely random child couples were offered a test. At the same time, those couples were automatically excluded from the sample where the man was raising a child who was obviously alien from a biological point of view. That is, the study did not include families with adopted children, families where a man married a woman with children from a previous marriage, etc. And here are the results: every third father raised not his children. Every third!!! And he did not even know that the children were not his. That his wife was cheating on him, and that paternity was false.

Every third woman turned out to be a traitor, a traitor, a whore. Choose any definition or all three together. Here are some funny news of the population. I don't think Russian ladies are much more moral than American women. I suppose it's at the same level. Therefore, it is natural to assume similar numbers in the area of false paternity. Now let's go through the laws and law enforcement practice. It will help us understand exactly what women are losing if men stop being afraid to establish their paternity using DNA tests immediately after the birth of a child.

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1. Modern women - for the most part - live in a state of matriarchal promiscuity. Simply put, even being married, they fuck freely on the side. After all, the so-called official marriage does not give any guarantees of marital fidelity, as it was at least 100 years ago. Even if you catch your wife in bed with your lover, there is nothing you can do. Except for the divorce. Where the divorce court will take away your property, including premarital property. So the mass establishment of paternity will not allow women to freely intercourse on the side with lovers. We'll have to remain faithful to my husband, and for such an extreme, the current matriarchal ladies were not prepared. After all, as I already wrote, infidelity will be revealed, which means that about every third family will fall apart. Moreover, it will fall apart in the most unfavorable way for a woman. She will not be able to sue either an apartment or alimony in a divorce court. That is, it will not be possible to squeeze capital and financial support from a man for 18 years. The child is not his, and all the bribes are smooth. So it is financially disadvantageous for women.

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2. Now an official marriage has two points that are extremely disadvantageous for a man. The first negative point. In marriage, any child born by a wife is automatically assigned to her husband in the maternity hospital. It does not matter at all whether the husband is his biological father or not. Even if a white couple has a black baby, they will automatically be registered with her husband by law. And if the husband doubts paternity, he has no right to refuse. He can only initiate legal proceedings himself, start the process of challenging paternity, conduct a DNA examination, and if it turns out that the child is not his, then paternity will be canceled. But this is a long and long story, on which, by the way, not all men decide, even those who suspect or even know about their wife's infidelity. The title of "real man" is dearer to them than common sense.

And women take advantage of this. But even if you still decide to confirm or exclude, i.e. challenging paternity, this whole process - with the courts and everything else - will take a lot of time. During which you are still obliged to support the child and the wife on maternity leave. By the way. You have no right to divorce a pregnant or foster wife, even if you caught her in bed with her lover, and the child is not yours a hundred times. The second negative point. If the child was born within 300 days after the divorce, he is also automatically assigned to the ex-husband. Then the same problems arise as described above. It's only even worse - after all, during these 300 days, the ex-wife can dump from Smolensk to Sakhalin, where the maternity hospital will register you as a father. And then you will sue: from Smolensk on Sakhalin. How do you like the prospect? Let me remind you that outside of an official marriage, a child is not automatically assigned to you.

In the column "father", a dash is put first. And at this time, you can calmly conduct a DNA examination, and if you are a father, adopt this child.

3. Let's say you live with a woman - it doesn't matter whether married or not. You have a child, you raise him. One day you start to doubt that this is your child. You do a DNA test and it turns out that he is not yours. You are filing for divorce so that the court will remove your parental responsibilities. But it was not there. There is a provision in the (anti) family code that if the father knew that the child was not his, but adopted and raised him, then he, the father, no longer has the right to exclude paternity and relieve himself of parental responsibilities.

You, of course, swear and swear that you did not know anything like that. Meanwhile, the wife tearfully declares that she has confessed to you many times that the child is not yours. But every time you said that it was not important to you. Mother-in-law, father-in-law, wife's sister and a couple of girlfriends will act as witnesses. They all personally heard your wife tell you that the child is not yours. Bingo! You lose the right to deny your paternity and give up your responsibilities. You will have to give half of your property to your ex-wife and her child. And also for the next 18 years to pay alimony tribute - after all, alimony is accrued regardless of anything. In marriage, this turns out to be easier, because the baby is automatically assigned to you at birth.

It's more difficult outside of marriage - you have time to cold-bloodedly conduct a DNA test and establish (or exclude) your own paternity. The first point will become impossible, and the second and third points will be greatly complicated if men begin to widely use DNA tests to establish paternity. Therefore, it is better if DNA tests were never invented. Or once and for all men would be prohibited from using them.

THE MALE! YOUR HOLY RIGHT IS TO RAISE YOUR OWN CHILD AND NOT ANOTHER CHILD. DO NOT BE AFRAID, DO NOT HESITATE TO USE A DNA TEST TO DETERMINE PATERNITY!