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The number of children and adolescents who are characterized by certain manifestations of school and social maladjustment, manifested persistent behavioral disorders, is increasing every year. Today, deviations in the behavior of children arise, according to experts, as a result of the political, socio-economic and environmental instability of society.

“A bit far from the river,” I said.

- So it is necessary that in vain one does not run away to swim. Once a day is enough, on schedule. Under my supervision. Otherwise they will overflow … Have you barely pumped someone out?

- There was a case, - I admitted.

- Well, what did it teach you?

- That all pioneers should be good at swimming.

- Well, if I took the camp away from the river - I would live more calmly …

N. Bogdanov

This winter, not far from my native place - in the Lipetsk region - an incident that was on the whole completely normal for a normal society happened. A ninth-grader Anatoly Bulgakov rescued two boys who decided to walk to the middle of a reservoir barely covered with ice. For more than ten minutes the boys floated in the icy water until the older boy heard them. He grabbed a stick, crawled across the ice, pulled both of them out.

Actually, there is nothing to talk about, as the rescuer himself said. But let's see what they started talking about on the Internet …

… Of course, the vast majority of commentators simply admired the guy: "A real man is growing … already grown …" But here's what's interesting: there were other comments as well. And their essence boiled down to the following: the guy had not to risk himself, but to call the Emergencies Ministry - there are professionals for such cases! And the parents of the injured boys should be deprived of their parental rights so that “their” children would not climb on the ice. The mass media, in general, practically bypassed the guy's feat. How they ALWAYS bypass such acts of adolescents. But on the other hand, they very willingly and with many voices raise a fuss around completely different and much more rare situations - children-murderers, children-rapists, children-drug addicts, children-asocials - and at the same time, making noise, they convince everyone around that they are doing a useful thing, “inform "," Draw attention to the problem."

That's it: ATTRACT ATTENTION. In general, I believe that one of the main culprits in the difficult situation with child offenses and crimes is the media and the Internet. They reproduce, reproduce the negative. Instead of creating a "zone of dead silence" around such situations, hysterical noise rises, meetings, talk shows, discussions are held - in other words, what any specialist in psychological warfare will tell you is being done: they are trying to draw attention to the issue, making it the basis for imitation and development …

… By the way, let's return to our rams. More precisely, commentators - lovers of the Ministry of Emergencies and deprivation of rights. Why did I even start talking about them? No, where did I start the article with this story, "what is it about, the author ?!"

Be patient. Problems like the one I'm going to talk about should be chewed from the skin to the very seeds. So that…

There is such a thing in our not quite normal world, which is now being talked about a lot - AUE. The teenage movement "Prison way of life is one", which aims to promote the prison subculture.

On my own behalf, I want to say two things right away. Firstly, the danger of AUE is incredibly exaggerated, again by the media, and there are adolescents in this virtual network organization in the bulk, who do not even think to seriously violate the law and go to the bunk, they just like to feel involved in the structure.to confront the dissimilarity of the others and to play in resistance to the authorities. Secondly, in my opinion, AUE is not a "prison project" at all. I am almost sure that it was not some insidious plowmen who created him with the aim of forging a change for himself, but he was born in the corridors of power and carries the only goal - to identify, knock out of the way and neutralize (using the "steam in a whistle" method, or even just planting) the most active and restless boys.

But it's not that. I'm now talking about the reasons for the popularity of AUE. And it is precisely that this subculture offers the boys Secret, Risk, Unity. Everything that a completely bankrupt government, entangled in the de-ideologization of youth and making lack of ideology an idea, cannot provide in PRINCIPLE. Young people want to be HERE and NOW. And they are offered to grow up and think about a career. Moreover, they already understand very well, not even high school students understand that they cannot make any career, all career places are occupied.

Should you be surprised? Why be surprised that AUE, that another young psycho who runs into school with an ax? Moreover, the media will shout excitedly about both, and no one will really hear anything about Tolya Bulgakov!

Inability to realize oneself. And a constant vivid example on blue screens - as the hope of becoming famous and declaring oneself in even such a cretinous, scary way.

I deeply despise those who serve as guards of all ranks in juvenile colonies, I have already written about this many times. But it must be admitted that they see the "contingent" the closest. And not so long ago, the head of one such colony said that the main problem of modern boys is that they have nowhere to apply their strength. And you know, he's right. The trouble is not that these forces exist, and, they say, this must be fought in the name of eradicating aggression. And the fact that there is nowhere to attach them.

There is a powerful force in nature - the very force that drove two boys onto thin ice. This is the craving of boys for risk, which adults who have forgotten their childhood do not understand at all. It's good that it still exists. It still exists in our country. But even here, we increasingly see things that are completely wild from the point of view of our childhood - empty sports grounds, ice of a river without traces of a hockey collision, snow-covered hillsides without ski slopes … A few years ago I wrote that the leaders of clubs engaged in active recreation children, sound the alarm - it becomes difficult to recruit replenishment, those who come are far inferior not even to their fathers, but to their older brothers - both in strength, and in dexterity, and in endurance, and in the urge to take action … But also those who are all still strives to test himself …

… and now let's take a look at the recently released rules for the provision of outdoor services. I will not retell them now - anyone can find and read them. Read - and repeat after me: "Actually, that's it!"

Everything is done to prevent children from sticking their noses out into nature.

From the moment these rules are adopted, children under 12 years old are left with only a computer and always busy parents - before this age they simply drop out of the sphere of active recreation. And in what trips 13-14-year-olds can be taken, it is completely incomprehensible. Apparently, in a suburban park area to sit by the fire. Only from the age of 15 you can carry out more or less normal tourist activities, for example.

The demon of "child safety" is grinning with full mouth … Soon we are waiting for the exact same ban to be issued for parents - there are some irresponsible citizens who drag their 8-10-year-old children on multi-day routes, preventing the development of a harmonious virtual personality …

In fact, the creators of the new rules must be judged. And yes, I am more and more convinced: the tragedy in Karelia WAS A PLANNED ACTION. Under the curtain, over these several years, a complete set of rules was adopted (GOSTs - only the final, the cherry on the cake!), Excluding the slightest opportunity for the boy to even try to become a man. It is enough to read about a fenced beach with a depth of no more than 120 centimeters. But the reciprocal argument is reinforced concrete: "What if they drown ?!"

HANDS DROP.

My good friend Kirill Lebedev, the head of one of the best outdoor camps in Russia (his article about choosing a summer camp was published some time ago by "Soviet Russia"), brought to me the following conclusions, which he heard at the next meeting of "minds" devoted to the reform of the additional education: "The changes taking place in the field of additional education for children are determined by the new goals of additional education for children - to help the child use the resource of childhood, the resource of free time in the interests of developing his own personality and to make sure that the personality does not then come into conflict with the interests of society and the state" …

The Jesuit fathers roll on carpets in rapturous, envious hysteria. The hedgehog understands that the PERSONALITY will certainly come into conflict with the antihuman interests of modern states and fucking society. But if this is "lichnosti", then there will be no contradiction. The atomized conglomeration of Yalichnosti is the ideal of the state.

By the way, how are they going to “take into account the interests”? After all, according to the new rules, I repeat, children under 15 cannot be involved in serious, for example, tourism activities at all! I'm not joking, this is also directly spelled out. Not to mention the fact that their "social investigations" are needed in order to put on the pencil boys who may be dangerous to their "stability". And ABOUT THIS is also directly written! And they are ALREADY trying to do this, with a knife to their throats, demanding from the leaders of clubs and circles the personal affairs of the guys!

The number of children-tourists ten years ago was 1,200,000 and 700,000 - the year before last. Cut almost in half! How could it be otherwise? On the one hand, parents intimidated by the media more and more often lock their child in their apartment or drag him with them to resorts. On the other hand, almost all official children's tour routes, for example in Crimea, are designed for a distance of 2 to 10 kilometers. From TWO to TEN! You are not mistaken! A child walks around the apartment more in a day! Other than a mockery of the idea of children's tourism - a thing that should instill strength, dexterity, endurance, teamwork and much more, such kindergarten walks cannot be called. And no 12-year-old will take it otherwise than bullying.

However, what am I talking about? 12-year-olds, I repeat, should not be put on the routes at all …

… Yes, the boy can drown. May break a leg or even a neck. May get heatstroke or be bitten by mosquitoes. All this is quite possible, damn it.

AND WHAT? Let us then cut off their legs and arms all at once. Or we will put on tranquilizers, fortunately, experience is literally at our borders, and our child defenders there regularly run after this experience, like to the authorities for instructions. Society will not get enough of it. But none of them will harm themselves and will not climb "where it is not necessary".

By the way. When - to the heart-rending screams of child safety! - feminist-minded figures diligently weed out from the lives of children (especially boys!) Everything that can pose the slightest danger, everything that is associated with risk and effort, they are probably convinced that they are doing a good deed. Indeed, they care about the well-being of children! An essentially win-win move was chosen - to appeal to "children's safety", to "children's comfort".

Back in the 30s of the last century, the ladies who decided to climb with their wild ideas about “comfort” and “safety” into the life of boys would have been stuck and stamped by adult men. But now the percentage of men who work with boys is minimal and is declining further.

In fact, this process is EVERYTHING, from ousting a man from school to adopting new rules for hiking! - both stupid and dangerous.

He is stupid because he is, in fact, a struggle with the very nature of man. In other words, it is doomed to final fatal failure.

And it is dangerous because at specific short historical stages, as experience shows, it may well be crowned with success. Massive pressure on the family, the moral and forceful eradication of the craving for risk and action in boys, the displacement of male archetypes, concepts of Feat, Service, Risk from the consciousness of children - all this has as its crown the breeding of such a breed of Donkeys Eeyore, semi-sexless, crying and defenseless creatures. And feminized pedagogy does not hesitate to write this deduction into the plus of the “fight against aggression”. At the same time, those who still do not lend themselves to such a redrawing, firstly, loudly proclaim themselves "marginalized" and "aggressors" (AUEEeeeeee !!!), and secondly, they do not cease to satisfy the craving for risk, only completely uncontrollably (AUEEEEEEE !!! And walking on ice …). And, accordingly, putting his life at many times greater risk than in a boxing section, a tourist club or a military-patriotic club. And those who managed to make the Donkey suffer all their lives with mental problems. Sometimes they just suffer … and sometimes they break loose and go to shoot teachers and classmates.

And in a normal society, they would go on hikes, drive along an obstacle course on maps, take off in the air on gliders, go hunting and into a shooting range.

And the most important thing.

Probably, you, too, have heard more than once, reader, high-flown phrases like “you shouldn't talk with your fists”, “no one needs your male upbringing for a long time” and so on “you can always agree!”. So, I'll tell you a big secret.

ONLY AGREE WITH THE STRONGS. WEAK OR IGNORED OR BEATHED.

And nothing can be done about this at any level - not at the school level or at the level of world politics.

“In our city, at school, in the eighth grade, a kid is studying,” writes one of my informants, a high school student himself. - If someone touches him, he just comes up from behind, knocks to the floor and kicks. Purposefully in the head. Lying. WITH EVERYONE! Recently, one guy was taken away in an ambulance after this. Let me remind you - THIS HAPPENED WITH THE WHOLE CLASS! When I asked why they were not separated by a crowd, their class teacher replied: they were, they say, scared. TWENTY were scared of ONE! - and asked how this is so, she replied: could you separate? I immediately stopped talking with her - what's the point? Is this the kind of world that pacifists want for children?"

Well, yes. This is the kind of peace they want, although another lady in the school director's place, preaching something like: "Fight is not a method!" without trying, at least for myself and at least in connection with this event, to answer the simplest question: is it a method or not a method of fighting ?! In their fantastic pink world, however, "there will be no bullies at all." (Will go somewhere …)

But this is impossible already because on planet Earth there are always those who come up from behind, knock on the floor and kick in the head. So these ladies can be safely accused of … treason. Paradoxically, yes - they want the death of the Fatherland and the nation. But trying to prove it to them is useless. From their coop it is only clear that "a boy under control will never cut his own finger." And you cannot prove to them even the simplest fact, which has been proven many times already: "A comfortable and safe childhood means a lot of problems in adulthood!"

Well, what in the bottom line can the state offer the boys - molding mugs from salt dough?

And here's another question: DOES it WANT to offer them something?

The state, in fact, got what it wanted - the complete collapse and ruin of everything in the world, from the world's best child tourism system to ordinary morality. It can oppose this with the instantly officialized and sluggish "Yunarmiya" and the streams of clergy. Normal active boys do not like either one or the other. But they perfectly hear when and who is lying to them. And they have already passed their verdict to the authorities.

And here we are - finally! - we come to the essence of the article.

And the essence lies in the complexity, versatility and POLITICAL COMPONENT of the problem.

Do not be surprised.

People often say to me: they say, you exaggerate in describing this problem. Officials are reinsured, they want to minimize the possibility of trouble, and with it, their responsibility, by the way they are used to by total prohibitions.

Everything, in my opinion, is much more complicated and worse. And we see only part of a huge complex problem, or rather, sabotage, excuse me. Yes, most officials cover up their… um, their chair by destroying children's tourism. But…

Remember the story of the elephant, which was felt and then described by the blind? The elephant was not described by any of them. Due to blindness, inability to SEE the whole animal. And to feel - no matter how you feel, you will only feel what lies closer …

… Have you noticed to what extent everyday household cowardice has firmly and organically entered our life? I bow low to the organization "Lisa Alert", no one has done so much to save and find people in trouble and missing people, as her selfless volunteers, no Ministry of Emergency Situations can stand next to them. But not so long ago, I read their advice on how to educate a child as a parent in order to minimize the risks for him in life.

In fact, these tips are a complete sentence. Surrender. They are very intelligent, they will save many children individually, but society as a whole, if executed, will die after a long and painful agony. FEAR and DISTRUST - these are the main tenets of these principles, global fear and distrust, which have become life principles since childhood, which have entered the flesh and blood of children. And, of course, a tight connection to a computer - "safe", of course (although only banning the Internet for a child heals such things as interest in the shit that is thickly floating there).

This is a cry of despair before the death of the world we are used to. Whether there will be a FOLLOWING world where NOTHING will become, or a world where children, in principle, will not need to be taught not to go anywhere with unfamiliar adults and run through life from school to the entrance, depends on us.

I also noticed how that body of advice was written. There is only one image of a father, a man, and it is frankly negative. The rest is simply addressed "to moms", just grammatically. The natural desire of women for the safety of their children is the most reliable ally for those who write "safety rules." And the most reliable destroyer of the world as a whole.

“Those over forty”, remember how the wonderful Krapivin “Sandalik, or the Path to the Ninth Bastion” begins? A modern boy almost certainly will not go with an unfamiliar uncle to a hotel to look at some book about ships (however, a modern boy can often just BUY, and that's all! And none of your safety advice will help here, because they are sold quite calculated and consciously…). It won't, and that's good, because the world around is actually dangerous.

HERE IS ONLY THIS BOOK HE WON'T HAVE. And this acquaintance will not be either. A trifle, of course. Especially against the background of child safety. True, Sanya Dalchenko DOESN'T EVEN COME INTO HEAD.

And you know what? He was right. Here HE was right - he and the world in which he lived. And not deeply respected by me for hundreds of people found "Lisa Alert".

Sorry.

We teach our children every second of cowardice, thinking that we are saving them. And that is why the position “you don’t need to drive them anywhere, they will break, scratch, bite…” and the advice “oh, this is a suspicious company, go around it…” and so on, we meet with APPROVAL. And we no longer ask anyone WHERE did this company come from? WHERE are the instructors who are trained to watch so that the child does not break on the hike?

Made yourself a nickname as a keepsake? Fine. Go ahead. How do you like this?

“And nevertheless, the introduction of the position of a family inspector gives some chance to change the situation for the better. In any case, they began to do at least something, because this problem is quite serious. The dry figures of statistics say that because of the cruelty of parents, 50 thousand children run away from home every year, 2 thousand of them commit suicide. In 2016 alone, 194 thousand children became victims of violence by adults, 2, 9 thousand children died, and 3 thousand were seriously injured. 70% of children end up in shelters with living parents."

WHERE ARE THE STATISTICS FROM? It is worth making out the numbers - because of WHAT the children are actually running away, dying and committing suicide - and it becomes clear that the notorious "cruelty of parents" here in the vast majority of cases did not lie nearby, and they run away not because of it, but because of it. for childish stupidity, and they end up suicide not at all by parental arbitrariness, and die at the hands of strangers … But "competent specialists" immediately begin to brandish these statistics (dry numbers … yeah … just without footnotes, so it turns out that "Polish Army Berlin took, the Red Army helped him!”) - and now another nerd climbs into the family with heavy puffing, non-figuratively speaking, pushing the parents with his elbows, pulling a fat snout and wondering: how does your child spend his free time there ?! And what is it ?! And why is this here ?! And where did you take him on vacation ?! Where are you taking this weekend ?!

Ah … what's your business?

But what …

Perm, January 26 - "AiF-Prikamye"

“The government of the Perm Territory proposed to revise the work of the organ after the tragedy at school # 127. The authorities propose changes at the legislative level. They will concern the implementation of preventive measures that can prevent the recurrence of crimes of adolescents in educational institutions.

In particular, the regional authorities propose to make them an independent body and give them a wider range of powers. It is assumed that the KDN will also receive more extensive access to information. Parents and officials will be required to transmit all information indicating aggression and social danger of children. Parents will be held liable for failure to provide relevant information about teenagers.

In addition, according to the regional authorities, it is necessary to expand the functions of closed educational institutions, to make sure that adolescents with aggressive inclinations have the opportunity to simultaneously continue to study and receive the necessary treatment."

What does it mean? Citizens, if anyone does not know: anyone who has tried to oblige parents to SUCH should immediately go to court under three criminal articles at once.

The wording itself sounds so cretinic (not to mention what I mentioned at the beginning of the article - it was proposed to consider the child's non-compliance with certain “rules” written by pro-government morons to be considered a “social danger”!) That Moscow should already fly to those regions a group of psychiatrists - to examine these guardians of the public good for megalomania. However, it does not crash, and these measures are seriously discussed. Of course, in the name of all the same child safety. There was a massacre at the school! You have to do something! And the crowds of the people wisely nod their heads and smack their lips: “We must, we must! We are for it! And my child is good, nothing will happen to him, this is not about me …"

Guys (I'm talking about officials now), to put it simply, you have already hesitated.

They were shaken by their helplessness and at the same time vicious aggressiveness (that's just YOU in bulk!).

We were shaken by the desire not to answer for anything - starting from the root of all troubles - the collapse of the USSR.

They were shaken by the irrepressible desire, without soap, to get into the family at any cost with their crazy instructions and orders.

And separately they hesitated with a deliberate unwillingness to understand that Aggressiveness is a THING NECESSARY FOR A BOY. It only needs to be HANDLED and DIRECTED. As for that terrible story with the stabbing in the Perm school - after THIS, all officials dealing with childhood issues in the region should leave their places. TO FLY, and not demand new powers for the further implementation of failed pro-juvenile projects. And they, before our eyes and with our approval (everything for the safety of children!), Are completing the creation of a system of absolute denunciation: children report parents to the guardianship authorities, parents report children to the KDN.

JUST A FAIRY TALE …

… When, at the turn of the 1990s and 2000s, the Blue Orchid operated for almost ten years in Perm, when the lives of THOUSAND boys were mutilated, where were all these incorruptible and strict supervisors for children's problems? Where were they when, AT THE very BEGINNING of that story, a full report on the growing mechanism of child molestation was put on their table - and where did they take this report ?!

… Already more than once I have received alarming signals: in the event of a child's restlessness, noisiness (including during breaks!), Teachers begin to convince his parents that he should be immediately shown to “specialists”. The same practically ALWAYS prescribe pills for the "treatment of ADHD" (remember: this is the so-called "attention deficit hyperactivity disorder" - a false diagnosis, which, firstly, the "experts" cover their unwillingness to really mess with the child, and secondly, which serves as a means of destroying in boys the inclinations of courage, curiosity, active action through the chemical murder of will and character). These cases are no longer a few, they have practically become the rule in the Russian Federation. And it's good if parents have enough intelligence and common sense not to follow the lead of criminals from schools and clinics. Many parents fall for this and put their son on drugs, turning him into a half-plant dependent on pills. At the same time, they are - especially mothers! - they also cannot rejoice at how calm, assiduous and obedient yesterday's brawler and mischief has become.

This is how negative species selection goes. Children who are supposed to grow into discoverers, protectors and explorers become drug addicts with the blessings of both the authorities and parents. And the girlish type of behavior is considered a model for a boy - perseverance, complaisance, willingness to cooperate, but at the same time secrecy, envy, deceit, which just in boys, in this state of affairs, flourish especially magnificently and disgustingly.

And now I’ll tell you WHY they are so pushing on “non-aggressive”, “control” and “constant surveillance”.

Because the building of the jailhouse they built is, in fact, very fragile, it can only be kept intact by constant loud lies and quiet repression. And the young, whom they deceive, can see some from indifference cataracts, some from bulk hypnosis and demand REAL changes. And the answer. More precisely - to the answer.

Better to "stop aggression" at a very early age. Indiscriminately.

(By the way, pay attention to the howl raised by the authorities whenever "minors" are found at protest rallies. Anyone. And they come there themselves, you can joke and be angry about this topic as much as you want, but this is TRUE. However, the authorities themselves completely without hesitation they force children who do not want to do this to read propaganda "for Putin" on camera, take schoolchildren to demonstrations under the flags of "United Russia", and so on and so forth.)

Thus, you see not separate problems at all.

This is not a “reinsurance of officials in terms of organizing children's leisure”. Not "family problems that need to be identified in time." Not "the desire to provide children with the greatest comfort and safety."

NO.

Before you is a clearly defined and far-reaching desire to concentrate children (and the entire Russian population!) In a dozen or so huge urban centers. Under constant control. Taking care that outside these centers a person was helpless from childhood. Making sure that within these centers a person without the help of "competent specialists" was just as helpless. Making sure that the person knows the route "work - home - certified and safe entertainment center". Taking care that nothing depends on the person, that the person is afraid of everything and is easily controlled by the negative transmitted to the brain that “danger is everywhere!” and "only specialists will save you!" Taking care that a person could not just defend himself against something himself and protect his loved ones, so that he would not even have such thoughts, so that he himself perceives them as a signal of his “mental illness” (after all, we remember that “with our fists you won't prove anything!”, right?).

Adults are troublesome to remodel. Redoing is often useless. But on the other hand, it is possible - much easier and with much greater efficiency - to GROW CHILDREN ACCORDING TO THE GIVEN PARAMETERS. Create a generation of reservation children who will faint from a stern look in their direction and are afraid to take a kitchen knife in their hands to cut a carrot.

Of course, solely in the name of their safety and comfort.

What did you think ?!

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